PHILOSOPHY People could learn to slow down a little at times, to not be so fixated on the end result, and to take some time to gain understanding before acting or reacting. There is no rush for the horse. If the person took a little time to watch and figure out how to help the horse understand what the person is asking, there might just be a whole new relationship opened up. All horses and all people learn in their own way. They all have their own hang-ups, hiccups, and blessings. We are always learning; never let that cease. Seek to learn every day. Never stop growing. You will never know it all. If you think you do, the horse will quickly show you that you don’t. Your horse is your best teacher. There are times to be firm, both for the person to be firm with the horse and the horse to be firm with the person. There are also times to be patient. Thankfully, the horse is usually a much more patient and forgiving creature than the human—or we would have a lot fewer people on the earth today. There is a saying that the only constant in life is change. Horses live and learn in the moment. We should as well. The person needs to be willing to change at a moment’s notice. Relationships are constantly in motion. In any relationship, you must build trust. Our lives are in our horses’ hooves every time we are with them. We need to trust them, and they need to trust us. Trust comes from communication. When there is clear understanding between horse and rider, trust will naturally follow. We must learn to control our emotions and stay focused on where we are going. If you get angry, go sit on your fence—not your horse. A horse always tells the truth; it is up to you to listen.

 

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